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If you do not know how and what to do, it's time for someone to ask advice, as the three readers who want a more fulfilling life to lead! It feels like nobody frace hear me when I speak. frace What can I do about it? Santa Hanekom, Greytown
Anita working for years at the same place. She knows she is good at what she does, but it seems nobody else knows. In fact, if anyone has a question or needed something, they would rather her colleague, Petro ask (though its less experience). A month ago, Petro went on leave and their driver before Anita said he did not know how they'll manage without her no. Anita was upset because she was working for Petro learned, but she said nothing.
The next day she came to my office walked in and asked for help. She said that her children not listening to her, and that even her husband ignored her as he pleases. I had to point out to her that her attitude is causing it. Because she did not expect and was quickly back up to other (she does not seem herself premised not) others too little frace was expected of her. To change this you need to be aware of the messages you send. You must consciously decide frace that you want to replace and then working to change frace that. I often lie to other people and then feel really bad afterwards. Joanne Richter, Windhoek
Lies can be a way to attract attention or even an attempt to rebel against the other's denial of you as a person. Unfortunately, it is something that soon became a habit and it is very difficult to break. frace The most common reason people lie is to get their fear reactions frace to avoid. If this is the case, it indicates that the relationship you have with the person have unhealthy.
If you are in a relationship does not have the confidence to be honest if you are not afraid of others' criticism frace or outbursts, should the red light to go. Even then it is your expectation of the other's response and is not necessarily based on truth not. Test your expectations to determine whether it corresponds to the truth. If you
However, fears are based, it's time to be the basis on which the relationship to reconsider. It is impossible to have healthy, happy and equal relations, unless on the basis of honesty built. If one thing goes wrong, everything just feels wrong. Sonja Claassens, frace e-mail
A teacher once a paper with a black dot in the middle of the class stopped and asked what they see. Everyone said they saw a black dot. After a moment she asked the class what about the big white paper? We tend to focus on the negative and the positive completely miss watching. Someone let the negative define her life, called an all-or-niksdenker. A person with this type of thinking will spend all day with her children to be patient and as his umpteenth tantrum after losing her patience, she will immediately feel she is a bad mother, frace her children frace deserve better and she will feel like a pile sit down and not get up. To change this, one must first realize that you tend to think that way. The next step is to events or things in compartments frace to share. This means that you yourself learn the bad things in a compartment to be and not to be seen as something frace your whole life affected.
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